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Pour into Yourself First: Learn to Love Yourself Properly

Hey boo! So I was scrolling on Instagram & I came across this video from Gary Vee. This short video expresses the importance of self-love & learning how to cultivate an healthy relationship with self.

In order to have healthy relationships with others, you first need to have a healthy relationship with yourself. Too often, people put all of their focus on trying to love others, without taking the time to learn how to love themselves properly. This is a recipe for disaster. If you don’t know how to take care of yourself and meet your own needs, you won’t be able to truly take care of others in a healthy way. In this blog post, we will discuss some tips for learning how to love yourself properly and pour into yourself first!

One of the most important things you can do for yourself is to learn how to set boundaries. This means learning how to say “no” when someone asks you to do something that you don’t really want to do, or that would be harmful for you. It also means taking care of yourself emotionally and mentally, by not putting up with toxic people or situations. When you know how to set boundaries and take care of yourself, you will be much better equipped to handle relationships with others.

Another important thing to remember is that self-love is not selfish. You cannot pour from an empty cup, so it is important to make sure that you are taking care of yourself first and foremost. This doesn’t mean that you should never do anything for others, but it does mean that you need to put your own needs first sometimes. When you take care of yourself and make sure that your cup is full, you will be able to give so much more to the people in your life.

So, if you want to have healthy and happy relationships with others, make sure to pour into yourself first! Learning how to love yourself properly is the key to success in all other areas of your life. Self-love is not selfish, it is essential!

What are some things that you do to pour into yourself first? Share in the comments below!


You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself first.

~ Unknown

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