A Self-Love Blog*
And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of His glory in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:19 Girl, Let Me Tell You… Sometimes “Jesus take the wheel” ain’t just about driving—it’s about every bill, every burden, every “Lord, I don’t know how this is gonna work” moment in life. That car …
In a world that often demands so much of us, finding and holding onto joy can feel like a revolutionary act. For Black women especially, joy is not just an emotion—it’s an act of resistance, self-love, and survival. Choosing joy means choosing ourselves, our peace, and our worth, no matter what the world throws our …
“So the last shall be first, and the first last: for many be called, but few chosen.” – Matthew 20:16 (KJV) Sis, let me talk to that quiet place in you—the part that’s been waiting, serving, sacrificing, showing up for everyone else while wondering, “When is it going to be my turn?” You’ve clapped for …
There comes a moment, sis, when life feels like it’s just too much. The bills stack up, your heart is heavy, the people you poured into can’t be found, and you look in the mirror and whisper, “I’m tired.” I know that feeling. I know what it’s like to cry quietly in the shower so …
Let me ask you something, sis—when’s the last time you checked in with you? Not your job. Not your kids. Not your partner. You. We wear so many hats and carry so many roles, that sometimes we forget we’re human beings, not just human doings. Mental check-ins are a simple, soulful way to reconnect with …
Let’s be real, sis. The sun is blazing, your edges are fighting for their life, and the last thing you need is a heatwave and a heart full of stress. This summer, we are not sweating over people, problems, or things we can’t control. Not when we serve a God who already promised to carry …
Hey Girl, heyyyy! There’s something sacred about the spirit of a good woman. She walks through fire and still smells like grace. She’s underestimated, overlooked, and sometimes even used—but she never loses. Because a good woman doesn’t rely on the world to crown her… she’s already been appointed by God. Let’s be real—life will throw …
Let’s Be Real… Earth Is Ghetto Right Now Between the constant bad news, the weight of injustice, climate disasters, economic struggle, and the overall heaviness in the air—it’s giving “Lord, beam me up.” If you’ve ever found yourself scrolling your feed thinking, “This can’t be life,” you’re not alone. Earth is doing the most. The …
“Despite the obstacles you may face, you have the power within to change your life for the better. All you have to do is decide.” Whew. Let that sink in for a minute. I know life be life’ing. The bills don’t stop, the heartbreak still stings, the past still whispers in your ear, and sometimes …
Sis, you can stop holding your breath now. I know the waiting feels like a tightrope between faith and frustration. You’ve been praying, hoping, crying silent tears in the shower, asking God to just show you something. Anything. A sign. A door. A whisper that you’re on the right path. But here’s the truth: what’s …