We are adults so, it’s understandable to have a conversation about our needs, expectations & how we can add value to each other’s life.

But, this should not be a one sided conversation. A relationship includes two people to make a successful relationship/marriage.

A man should not just be asking what you can do for him (constantly takes) and never gives back to you. You both should pour into each other. Sis, If all he does is take, then just leave his behind at the table by himself.

It should not be a question about you proving your love for someone. If a man views you as a woman who is compatible with him, he will pursue you. He should never turn this question into a competition.

So, here’s the video that peeked my attention & encouraged me to share my two cents.

Most importantly, before you sit at a table with someone else make sure you have already prepared a place at the table for yourself. Make sure you are the woman God created you to be, whole, healthy, healed, content & satisfied within yourself. Too many of us are unprepared guests that jump into a relationship expecting the man to complete us & that turns into a whole disaster. They are a lot of unhappy, unhealthy relationships who don’t even want to sit at the table with each other.

If you want to hear more of my views on this topic? I mean, I know you do, click the button & listen to my podcast, “Girl, It’s Complicated!”